This is a hard one. At first I struggled to find my romantic definition of love, but at the end of the day, I kept coming back to family love. I was having a conversation with a male friend and I told him that I don't loan money to friends. I'll definitely spot you $20 here and there if you need it, but I don't loan out hundreds of dollars to friends. He then asked me what I would do if I needed money. I replied and said I would ask my sister and if she doesn't have it, I'll ask my parents. Between the three of them, hey would pawn everything they had if I really needed it. Luckily I haven't been put into that type of situation.  He asked me if I'd ask a boyfriend for money. My reply was NO. Unless he's my husband or fiance, I would go to my family. I know they love me and would go out of their way for me. Suffice it to say, no one else loves me like that, so I wouldn't ask them for money. During the conversation, my friend told me I wasn't a good friend. LOL!